Supporting the healing journey that follows loss, one thoughtful gift at a time.
Hello.
Loss is one of life’s most difficult experiences, and it often arrives without warning. Grief doesn’t follow a timeline, and it doesn’t ask to be resolved. It becomes something we learn to carry as life continues around us.
I’m Amy Fabian-Crump, founder of Dragonfly Vibes. My work is shaped by my own experience with loss, and by a deep respect for how heavy grief can feel — especially after the initial moments of support fade. While every experience of grief is deeply personal, I believe that thoughtful, continued care can make a meaningful difference.
Dragonfly Vibes was created to offer quiet, ongoing support beyond the moment of loss — through carefully chosen gifts and digital companions designed to be returned to when someone is ready. Nothing here is meant to rush, fix, or explain grief. This is simply a place where care remains.
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Our Mission, Vision & Values
Mission
At Dragonfly Vibes, we exist to offer quiet, ongoing support for grief beyond the moment of loss. We create thoughtful gifts and digital companions that provide presence, comfort, and care — without pressure to heal, move on, or make meaning — honoring grief as something people live with over time.
Vision
We envision a world where grief is met with patience, respect, and continued care — where support does not fade after the first moments of loss, and people are allowed to carry their grief without timelines, expectations, or explanation.
Values
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Presence Over Pressure: We believe the most meaningful support does not rush, fix, or direct. We offer presence that respects timing, autonomy, and emotional capacity.
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Respect for Ongoing Grief: We honor grief as a deeply personal, continuing experience — without stages, timelines, or expectations of resolution.
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Compassion With Restraint: We lead with empathy and kindness while intentionally avoiding language or practices that create guilt, urgency, or emotional labor.
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Quiet Community Care: We are committed to serving our community through thoughtful contributions, mutual support, and care that is offered without performance or obligation.
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Inclusion, Dignity, and Belonging : We embrace diversity and inclusion across all identities and experiences of grief, ensuring our work remains accessible, respectful, and grounded in dignity.
Why Dragonfly Vibes Exists
​In August 2020, I unexpectedly lost my youngest sister. We shared a deep bond, and her sudden absence changed my life in ways I still don’t have language for. Alongside the grief, I found myself holding unanswered questions, overwhelming emotions, and concern for the future — especially for my nieces and nephews, who would grow up without their mother.
In the months that followed, I noticed how quickly support around grief often fades, even though the need for care does not. What began as offering thoughtful gifts to friends grew into a desire to create something lasting — something that could support grief beyond the earliest days.
Dragonfly Vibes was born from that need. It exists for the quieter seasons, when life has moved on but grief remains. Our offerings are designed to provide presence without expectation, and support without pressure — honoring grief as something people live with over time.
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The Meaning Behind the Dragonfly
A phot of me and my sister Jaclyn on my wedding day.
A photo of the dragonfly tattoo with our initials intertwined in the body.
A phot of me and my sister Jaclyn on my wedding day.
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The story behind Dragonfly Vibes is deeply personal. For years, my sister and I talked about getting matching tattoos, but life always intervened — often with the joyful news of her pregnancies. In 2011, when she traveled to Oregon to be my matron of honor, we finally made it happen.
We chose a dragonfly design, with our initials intertwined in its body. Inked on the tops of our feet, it became a lasting symbol of our bond.
Every time I look at it, I’m reminded that connection doesn’t disappear with time, distance, or even loss. The Dragonfly Vibes logo — two dragonflies facing each other — represents enduring connection. Though my sister is no longer here, I feel her presence in the care and intention behind this work.
The dragonfly reflects what Dragonfly Vibes stands for:
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Continuation and change without erasure
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Adaptability without force
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Presence without instruction
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Connection that remains
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Dragonfly Vibes is not about moving on. It’s about acknowledging what’s been lost, while making room for care that stays.​​​